
In 1 Corinthians 7, Paul answers questions that he had received about marriage. He begins by accepting that marriage is a gift given to us by God. It is good if both husband and wife fulfill their God-given duties to each other. But later his comments are surprising. He says a person is better off unmarried than married. He argues that in a good marriage the man’s focus is on how he may please his wife. And the woman also now turns to how she may please her husband.
But Paul isn’t saying that marriage is bad. He is clear later when he says: “This I say for your own benefit, not to put a restraint upon you, but to promote what is appropriate and to secure undistracted devotion to the Lord.” (1 Cor. 7:35) His concern is not marriage but living lives in which devotion to God may be marginalized as our focus turns to other priorities.
There is an easily missed truth here. Consider this question: is it possible that things that are good—not sin in any sense—can become a negative in our lives?
Jesus is clear in Mat. 6:33, that the kingdom and righteousness of God is our priority in life. In Hebrews 12:2 we are called to live keeping our eyes fixed on Jesus. Jesus himself calls us to abide in Him (John 15:4).
Sin isn’t Paul’s concern here. Instead, the danger is being distracted, not by what is evil, but by something that is good yet detracts from our devotion to Jesus. We may still be Church-goers, even read the bible. But our focus has drifted to something other than Him.
This passage moved me to look back through the years and ask myself if a good thing ever undermined my focus on Christ. The answer was painful. Sailing and racing boats, woodworking, even studying theology as an intellectual challenge! Each had my focus for a period, and I see now distracted me from a deepening devotion to Christ.
Marriage can bring great joy in life. It is neither bad nor sinful. It is good to love your wife as Christ loved the Church. But in Christ, the two become one. If together as one they are devoted to Him, there is no distraction to be avoided. But Paul is right; we need to be cautious that a great hobby or interest in something good does not take Jesus’ place in our lives.
Is your devotion to Christ undivided?






